Sex and dating

You’ll feel better with time

Need a hand staying harder for longer?

Smiling, making eye contact, and bringing your best self are what it takes to connect and get a guy's attention.

Darcy Spits leaves us drooling over their handling of gonorrhea

There’s a whole world of pleasure to discover inside that perfect pucker.

Tips for working out what you want and having that conversation.

Have you been ghosted? Here’s our guide to finding closure and moving on with grace.

You’ve seen the label on Grindr. But what is a side?

...you’ve started sharing your lives, your friendships and a Netflix account. There’s just one last hurdle. He hasn’t met your parents.

If he’s always making excuses not to meet you in person, he may not be who he says he is.

Limber up those thumbs; we’re about to get sexty!

Grindr, Scruff or Squirt? What’s the best gay dating app for you?

If you’re old enough to use a dating app, you’re too old to be ghosting people.

Contrary to what you might think, your jealousy function doesn’t get switched off when you start a non-monogamous relationship.

There are plenty of ways to stay close, even when you can’t be together.

From hooking up to shacking up, these stories are proof that you can really can find love online.

The art of good kissing is different for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be complicated.

There’s more than one way to put a ring on it. Here’s everything you need to know to get harder for longer.

"It’s definitely increased my pleasure and sensitivity, the same way guys say that getting their nipples pierced suddenly makes them ‘hardwired’ for pleasure."

Kink can be for anyone, and it isn’t necessarily about chain slings and gimp suits - unless that’s what curls your toes.

If he’s pushing back onto you, moaning and grinding the mattress, take it as an endorsement.

Open wide for a feast of tasty tips, as well as the juiciest safety advice for all things oral.

It may not be for every day, but there’s no denying a threesome is a compelling fantasy!

Will the morning after be awkward or relaxed? Are you even sexually compatible?

The good news is that you’ve got plenty of choices to look after your sexual health and have the sex you want in your relationship.

Before you get in deep, take a level-headed look at your compatibility in a few important areas.

Got a hot date coming up and looking for inspiration? Here are some easy ideas to spark a connection and get to know each other.

Some timely advice for anyone looking to get off online — you might be alone, but there’s no need to be lonely.

“... I'm not sure if it's OK to just stop taking my PrEP every day or if there's something else I should do.”

We must realise two things about hooking up: it’s a high risk activity, and some people are going to want to do it anyway.

When RuPaul’s Drag Race is referencing ‘no fats, no fems, no Asians’ on international television, it’s clear there’s something going on.

It’s time to stop wasting data and start making the most of your apps.

Technology and sex can make a cute couple – with some healthy boundaries.

A friend with benefits means you can focus on amazing sex without being compatible in other ways.

Draw the curtains, order that skip bin and join us for seven steps to decluttering your toy box.

Ready for some tough love? We’re asking the six hard questions which may be just what you need to turn your dating life around.

Let’s talk about (anal) sex! A guide to looking after your anal health, for the discerning bottom.

Whether you know it or not, this wonderful little organ has been part of every load you’ve ever produced.

Sex + Party + Plan = the night of your life!

If you’re looking to mark an occasion and create a truly unforgettable experience, why not opt for something unique.

Can Theo and Guy negotiate a way to both stay safe and happy?

Chances are you've already seen at least one of these fifteen guys we’ve all met on Grindr.

He’s sexy, he’s local and he’s keen right now! But take a moment to ask these four questions before you meet him.

Somehow, organising a play date seems impossible. Should you persevere, or are you wasting your time?

Do you enjoy your sex life – and does it matter? The crucial question rarely asked about sexual health and PrEP.

Looking to put the ‘D’ in your weekend? Maximise your strike rate with these tips for picking up guys at gay venues.

Finding love requires an open mind, a bit of self-development and a proactive approach.

We look at male fertility and sperm count, and some ways you can boost your chances of fathering a child.

We're both feeling like we're ready to ditch the condoms. He's undetectable and suggested I go on PrEP. Do I need to?

Are all lubes created equal and what's important to know about the different kinds, especially when condoms or toys are in the mix?

Ready to meet him in 3D? Whatever you’re looking for, here's how to make a good impression on a first date.

On the gay dating scene? Here are seven things to avoid so you don’t send guys running!

Emen8 takes a look at some of the myths and possible causes that concern a lack of libido.

A mismatch in sex drives is very common, and it’s usually something you can work through together.

We’ve had sex before, but I wasn’t on PrEP back then. How’s he going to respond when I tell him, and what’s going to happen?

When it comes to dating in your 50s, are today’s online dating platforms a useful tool or a time-wasting distraction?

Is pulling out before cumming an effective way to avoid getting HIV?

It can be hard to balance the real world with the demands of your online life. Can you tell when you’re losing the battle?

While there's high pleasure potential from a rock hard hard-on, here's the lowdown on how to stay firmly safe.

Why not order some custom-made condoms to suit your schlong's exact measurements?

Waiting for an STI to clear up? Find out how to avoid sex on a first date even when you want it!

Model, personal trainer and fitness author, Ryan Greasley reflects on how the dating scene has evolved with technology to what it is today.

Tom might have gonorrhea, but could he have HIV too? He's off to a sexual health service to find out if he needs PEP.

At what point does a well-intended strategic safety practice become calculated discrimination?

It may be time to re-market your digital presence to cast a more fruitful line in the Grindr sea.

Take pleasure in seeing you and a sexual partner get off from one of these five lesser known erogenous zones.

Forget star signs! The true way to discover what your potential partner is really like is through his Grindr bio.

Relationship agreements can be a healthy part of both monogamous and open relationships.

In a world where if you want to screw your neighbour, there’s an app for that, what actually makes a decent date?

Here are my top five tips for a first date and ensuring that, at the very least, you have a good time!

If you’re looking to last longer in bed, you are not alone. Here are a few tricks you can try.

Like it or not, some people can't or don't want to use condoms. We investigate some of the reasons and alternative options.

If you’re not swiping right on HIV positive guys, you need to read this!

He leans in and whispers "I really wanna fuck you raw", pauses, then adds "I'm on PrEP".

GRUNT offers inclusive and sex positive info for gay, bi and queer trans men and their cis male sexual partners.