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Why can’t I meet a decent guy?

Ready for some tough love? We’re asking the six hard questions which may be just what you need to turn your dating life around.

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Looking after your assets: everything you need to know about maintaining a happy, healthy ass

Let’s talk about (anal) sex! A guide to looking after your anal health, for the discerning bottom.

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More than three ways to make the most of a three-way

It may not be something that happens every day, but there’s no denying that a threesome is a compelling fantasy. Whether you’re an accomplished sandwich artist or a keen first-timer, here are some handy tips on getting the most out of a three-way.

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Without condoms I don’t feel he’s safe… from me

Theo uses PrEP and suggests Guy tries it without a condom. But Guy’s HIV positive, undetectable and unsure about it. How will they negotiate a way to both stay safe and happy?

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Sexpectations: How to up your chances of picking up at a gay venue

Looking to put the ‘D’ in your weekend? Maximise your strike rate with these handy tips for picking up at gay venues.

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Getting stuck in with some lube connoisseurs

Are all lubes created equal and what’s important to know about the different kinds, especially when condoms or toys are in the mix?

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I’ve just started PrEP, here’s how my first hook up went

He’ll be here soon. We’ve had sex before, but I wasn’t on PrEP back then. How’s he going to respond when I tell him, and what’s going to happen?

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Flagging for some hanky panky – The gay handkerchief code and its unusual origins

Have you ever noticed a guy with a coloured bandana or handkerchief sticking out of his back pocket? Bless you for not knowing how wearing one became the symbol of a secret sex language. Here’s how to decipher what it all means.

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What’s up with withdrawal? Pulling out all the stops to prevent HIV

Withdrawal — This is not about symptoms associated with stopping drug or alcohol intake. This is about man on man sex. Emen8 investigates if pulling out before cumming is an effective way to avoid acquiring HIV.

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How to not put out on a first date because you’re waiting for an STI to clear up

Waiting for an STI to clear up? Find out how to avoid sex on a first date even when you want it!

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